March 19, 2009

A Family Show

My mom called last night and told me its confirmed that she'll be going home next month...hep hep hep...hold your thought guys!not because of the recession,but to have her 30 days vacation hehe.We are so excited its been two years since we saw and hugged her.My nephew were just 2 years old then barely crawling the floor and now he's 4 and running around the house already!

That made me happy.I missed my mom so much.I don't know maybe being a bi or gay made it so natural to be super close to their mothers than their fathers.Mothers made it so easy for us,me being gay by being so understanding,so forgiving,so loving...At least she will be free from responsibilities from my uncle who is currently her problem at Dubai.

But there is one slight problem of her homecoming...my father.You see,mom and dad are not really together,like together-together anymore.They are separated but without the legality.I mean my mom is living her own life now without caring what my dad thinks.Its fine with us,I mean she deserves to be happy.And my dad was really hard to reasoned with.He have an impossible personality that no one could bear!We all see it coming.

You see,my mom don't have a problem not seeing my dad for many years since my dad was out of the country too and he have his yearly vacation every December and my mom every May,so its been a success avoiding him.My dad don't seems to take it,he's still hopeful,but my mom and I thought its hopeless.She told my sister too that there is no love left at all.

But this year its a totally different scenario.My dad quits his job last year.And his visa for another work hasn't come yet,so my mom cannot avoid the inevitable hehe.Seeing my dad and actually living together in one roof!That's exciting for us haha we don't know how my mom is gonna play this!

I mean will she be sleeping the same room with him?
or how is she going to tell him that its not what's he thinks looks like?
Will there be lots of fights?
For my dad they are still husband and wife.He's in denial,that gets me irritated.

This will be the much awaited event of the year.
Abangan ang susunod na kabanata.

17 comments:

Herbs D. said...

glad to hear your mom coming home :)
i'm so happy for you, i know how it feels *hugs*

hope everything will pull through just fine. best of luck, sweetie!

Mac Callister said...

@herbs-yeah i know,thanks man,sana mag enjoy si mother lily sa bakasyon niya with bb gandanghari LOL

flamindevil said...

i smell reconciliation..hehe

let's hope for the best macmac

Mac Callister said...

@flamindevil--haha i doubt that,my mom have been fine without my dad for about five year now.well,maybe,why not haha.

Turismoboi said...

san ako din uuwi because of vACATION

:: cb :: said...

wow. people have been blogging about their moms ah. lapit na ba mother's day? hehe :D

reading your post made me think of my mom. good luck sa pag-uwi niya. tago na ang mga matatalim na bagay. hehe

Mac Callister said...

@turismo--darating din yan hehe

@cb--a talaga?i have no idea that most blogger blog about their mom lately hehe.atleast we all love our mothers hehe thats a good thing

the geek said...

inggit ako... i miss my nanay too..and she will be celebrating her birthday tomorrow...hay....

enjoy your moments with your mom...

Mac Callister said...

@the geek--yeah it will be fun,i cant wait for her to arrive happy bday to ur mom hehe.

Herbs D. said...

singit: hindi nga yata na save yung una mong comment ateh. (sa blog ko that is)

Jonathan said...

You're in my thoughts my friend, hope all goes well xxx

Mac Callister said...

@jonathan --thanks man.you take care too

gillboard said...

dilemma nga yan... hehehe... isa lang naman ang mahalaga sa pagdating ng mama mo...



pasalubong!!! lolz

dabo said...

huwaw! wthe summer would be a blast for sure

Mac Callister said...

@gillboard--yeah haha lots of pasalubong!

@dabo--yeah hope so,im thinking of sumer excapades na nga e hehe

Kenji said...

Ouch! Sounds bad... I hope nothing too big happen... But you said it like you are really interested to see what will happen! xD

In any case though, keep us updated!

Mac Callister said...

@kenji--yeah i will give u guys an update haha