Showing posts with label open relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label open relationship. Show all posts

March 5, 2009

Open Relationship?Duh!

PM was the last guy I dated.He is a Chief resident doctor at Muntinlupa and I met him at the chatroom.We've been chatting for a while and he wants me to be his bf even if he hasn't met me yet!Duh!I thought to myself,this guy is such in a hurry haha!And I got the impression that he is not what I'm looking for,the serious bf that you could bring home to Mama!If you know what I mean.

I lose the interest in him after that.But he came back and this time a little sensible hehe.He is now playing hard to get and I was like OK what is your game now.So now I'm the one pursuing him and we're texting more often,and we decided to meet at Alabang Town Center one Sunday afternoon.He was already there 30 minutes earlier than me,I'm late.Traffic.We almost wear the same clothes!haha.

I mean not literally,I was wearing this poloshirt and shorts and so was he!I think we're just wearing different brands and colors.The only difference was I wore it better LOL! PM is smaller than me I guess he stands 5'4" but i like his fair skin.Neat.Like any doctor I'm used to seeing.An average looking guy.One thing I noticed about him was,he is silent.He told me beforehand that he seldom talk.Shy and a silent type.

I'm the one who does the talking.If I don't speak at all we're just like inside a Vatican church!I didn't like that date!I'm bored to death!We ate at Burger King and ate his sundae and I noticed he's shivering haha he said he's cold!We went outside and stroll a little bit he put his arms at my shoulders and people might think he's my bf.

I took it off when I got the chance but he put it back.What the pakk!I thought to myself OK,whatev.He's still silent.Next time I'll add to my NO-NO list of possible dates:No silent types guys next to no oversensitive guys.hehehe.We went at Powerbooks store and look around.While I was flipping a magazine he came near me and held my hand discreetly.I looked around too glad people are busy doing their own business.

I give in.Its just my hand.He then wrapped his arms around my waist and he was like hugging me from the back!Hmmm,should I go away from him?I thought to myself.But I didn't.I don't know,I like his smell,his soft body and smooth skin near mine.and I had a hard on its obvious at my thin short hahaha I tried to hid it and think of anything to divert my attention.

Its obvious he's teasing me.My last sexual encounter was like a month ago(with my friend with benefits Randall who is now attending a seminar at Cebu city by the way!) Someone came near us and he moved away a little bit.I sighed thank God.When he got the chance he wrapped around his arms around my waist again and slipped his hands at my belly on top of my briefs.

And my manhood was throbbing like crazy!It want to come out and be stroked!LOL.I was gathering all of my self control to asked him for a room!I don't want an SEB, its against my rule and principles.I asked him to go to the open park of the mall instead.We sat there for a while and he said:
"would you like to have an open relationship with me?"
I said "what do you mean?"
"you know we are boyfriends but we could still see other guys"
And I was like "really?no I don't think I can do that."
He said "OK"
I was totally turned off!I mean my God he is 32 years old,a doctor and yet he can't do a serious relationship!He's not acting like his age.He is not 20 or something.Get what I mean?Not that I wanted it with him I mean I don't like his silent personality to begin with and now an open relationship?!And my manhood went from hard to jelly soft!hahaha.After a while I said I gotta to go.He walked me outside the mall and went home.He texted me while at the van to take care.