Have you heard this somewhere?
"E sa ganon ako e, ano magagawa ko?!!!(that's how I am, what can I do!)"
I heard this line many, many times, and it never fails to turn me off. When ever I'm dating someone or if he's my boyfriend and say those words. I don't know about most of you, but I don't like this line. I used to say that before when I was younger. But I only pushed people away. You need to make adjustments, you need to change for the better, especially if that attitude of yours are bad and people cant stand it.
Some people say, if I change, that's not me anymore. But what if you're hurting others?What if that attitude only makes u alone?what if it makes people hate you? I'm not saying that you change yourself, but at least try to lessen it specially if you can do something about it.
Let me tell you this, I used to be a super jealous/demanding boyfriend, and its all causing my relationships to end. No one can stand it.I cant keep a relationship longer.I did question my self and found out its not healthy. I tried to change little by little.And I did.
Change is good.Change for the better.We need to grow up and improve ourselves.
I have a co-worker before and she's so bossy and have this "I know-it-all" attitude, every one hates her and no one wants to be her partner. We talked to her and she said "e sa ganon ako, wala ako magagawa!" we just rolled our eyeballs and just ended the talk.Its useless. No one wanted to be friends with her till now.
I had an ex-bf, we don't see each other much and he's so insensitive, he didn't call much, didn't text much, when he did, he seldom speaks! Like I'm talking to a statue or a mute person!!!I don't feel like I have a boyfriend at all. But he said he loves me, but I cant feel it. I need more than words. Are you getting me peeps?hehe.
He added: this is me...I don't really text or call, but it doesn't mean I don't love you.(huh no text/call for two or three days??!are you kidding me?LOL) I broke up with him.I hope he finds someone who can live with it!LOL Com'on you could do better than that! at least make your presence felt helloooooo!
This is also the same with person with sarcastic remarks every time you talk to him, or someone who have the "I don't care what you think,I'll say what ever I wanna say" attitude even if its too offensive or unnecessary.
And they all say:
"E sa ganon ako e,wala ako magagawa!"
And this is what I can say...Well, good luck on that!LOL!!!!