June 21, 2009
Your Dad is Not Like My Dad
Hmmm, as I watched TV today, I realized its father's day...but I don't know, I just don't feel like it haha. My sister teased me during lunch and whispered while our father was in the bathroom "greet your fave father, its father day!" and i just made a face "yuck!" and went on eating.
We're still a little pissed at him, because last night he was so drunk even though we told him to stop drinking already, every once in a while he's complaining of dizziness and after I checked his blood pressure,its a little high. The meds are a little expensive too. Doctor said, stop alcohol. Guess what? he's super drunk last night he barely made it to the bathroom to puke!
I know this may look like TOO MUCH INFO alert haha but I don't care this is my blog I'll write anything I feel like writing LOL!
As I've said on my past posts that we have an Internet shop, business is good so far. We are not rich but we have enough to support all our needs. We also have a jeep for hire being driven by my uncle and the boundary goes off to my dad alone. Its alright since he was the one who bought it through his money from years of working abroad. But the bad thing about it ,my uncle drives the jeep from 5am to 10pm everyday to earn decent money (like he would earn a thousand and half of it will go to boundaries to my dad) and once he give the P5oo boundary to my ever great father, it will go straight to gambling! Like mahjong, monte and baklay!!!
Like every night!!! If someone dies, for sure my dad will be there to gamble!
My uncle feels bad about it. I mean he worked hard for that money and in just one night that money will be wasted for nothing!
Anyway moving on, yesterday it was my parents wedding anniversary but we don't celebrate it, since my mom and dad are separated but my dad can't dissolve that in his brain! In his own world they are fine and that nothing is wrong. Even though the facts are all in front his face. My mom didn't care at all about this day, so this week, we had too many expenses, my mom haven't send money yet, it will be delayed, she said,we have to pay electric bills ,Internet connections, maid salary, groceries, my nephew's tuition and I did a little shopping for my stuffs.Ooops! (you know the one's I will bring to Qatar LOL).
So that's the situation. But my ever great dad didn't see that. Its their wedding anniversary. He will celebrate it. What he did? He took money from our safe and spend it with his alcoholic friends and they celebrated it to their hearts content!!!
You see, that's why I don't feel like greeting my dad a "happy father's day".
I'm thankful he sent me to this world, but that's about it. Everything else is courtesy of my mom. So to my mom HAPPY MOTHERS DAY AND FATHERS DAY TOO TO YOU!!!!
Hahaha sorry peeps for this. Since every one else was talking about how great their dad is and that this is a special occasion but this is the other side of that. Not every one is as happy as they are. I'm alright, this is something I'm used to already, we ignored our father most of the time. Like just being civil and all.