January 24, 2011

Take Your Chance


There are many couples out there, men and women, men and...errr men too! Some are married, well in other states, and some are just committed. Maybe in time, they will tie the knot soon, or just waiting for the right time to move in to their own love nest. But, above all of these, there are the singles...

do you have any idea how many single gay guys out there?

Nah, I don't have the statistics too, but I'm pretty sure, there's tons of them! Maybe, You are one of them!

I am definitely one of them!

Come to think of it, if there are many single guys out there, in fact too many to count, how come many are still loveless? Still cannot find that one right man for them?

Why can't those millions of single guys meet and date? No more lonely people in the world. No more lonely gay guy, I mean! Yeah!

But still many are searching...
Many are still lonely...
Many are still praying to meet him...
and be happy soon...

I am still waiting! LOL.
Whats taking him for so long to find me? *eager much*

Why?

High standards. Maybe. Too choosy. Maybe. But beauty fades...material things lose their value. I DON'T KNOW

But whats left was, whats really inside...whats really behind that beautiful shell of him. There are other fishes in the sea, maybe you're just looking at the wrong body of water...lakes is there at the back...rivers was inviting you there for a swim for a long time, you just focused too much time at the ocean and its beaches...

What if...

You already saw him at the store at the mall, you saw him and he looked back at you too. A first sign. But you're just too shy to approach him...and you let that chance passed and lost him.

When in fact, if you did approach him and ask for his name and eventually led to a coffee date somewhere else after...he could be that guy you are waiting for!

He danced with you at the club and introduced himself and asked for your number, but you didn't replied his messages after...because you thought he was too confident or you thought he would play you...and you let the chance passed by...

When in fact, that guy was really interested and serious about having a long and committed relationship this time after being playful for so long...

Or he was a reader of your blog for so long and he was constantly emailing you, sending you instant messages...but you thought he's too boring to chat with...you just ignored him and let the chance to talk to him and know him passed by...

When in fact, he's just not the chatting kind of guy and he was more interesting to talk to in person...

I for one, had Jason in my hands before, but I did not took good care of him and I let him slipped off my fingers and didn't do about it sooner. I lost him forever. Because I didn't take a chance to come back for him and asked for a second chance to prove that I really do love him. We could have been together till now. I just let the chance passed by. Why? simple. Its my pride. Fried chicken shit! LOL

But its all in the past now. That's 6 years ago! I'm just saying!

Lets continue!

I mean, there are countless possibilities...many opportunities that I thought could have been a happy ending if we just have the courage and...

take a a chance.

Rejections? So what! At least you tried!

But if.. what if...ah, damn! He could be the one!!!

Take a chance...that one chance in your life. Who knows, your future love is just waiting and just around the corner.

So. you, yes you!

Why are you single till now?

17 comments:

ibañez said...

aww ganda nitong entry nato .. . . well bkt ba ako single!!?mahiyain, hnd pa ready takot? .. ahah

pero sabagay may point take every chances and never be scared to fail cuz failure will lead us to success ahaha

wasted said...

happily taken.. =)

but still... love ur blog mac... continue writing...

Mac Callister said...

@ibanez--thanks!sinipag ako magsulat kanina e kaya eto ang result.hehe

@wasted--good for you! thank you for reading, hope you still continue on checking my post every time! take care.

c - e - i - b - o - h said...

bsta ako hindi single.. at mac.. ang tawag yata jan sa ginawa mo e rationalization.. LOL

choz lang...

Virex said...

im single for a reason.. nasa ibang bansa din kasi ako tulad mo, and i dont want to have a long distance relationship na eventually mawawala din.. so for now, im just enjoying being single.. and when the time comes na sa pinas na ako mag stay, edi hahanap na ako ng pede sa akin.. kung may available pa.. hehe

rising mark said...

uhmm... waiting for you? =)

Mac Callister said...

@ceiboh--oo na alam namin ma taken ka na tse!haha

@virex--may punto ka nga naman!hehehe

lee said...

i used to be one of them. lol.

i think it's just the right timing with the right person. :)

KikomaxXx said...

im single kasi di pa ako handa for commitment.. lalong lalo na dahil pressure sa study... at di pa ako nakahanap ng maliligawang type ko...

ʎonqʎʇıɔ said...

i think john mayer called it first when he sang love song for no one. it's so spot on.

Mac Callister said...

@lee--tamoh ka jan! sana dumating na din yun right timing ko!haha

@kikomaxx-- cge aral ka muna,mahaba pa ang panahon mo maghanap hehe. take your time at para walang istorbo!

@citybuoy--haha oo nga noh~

Mac Callister said...

@rising mark--hahaha type ko hirit mo ha! like na like~!

soltero said...

so, meron kna bang nakita jan sa ospital? ahahahha...wag na LDR ha?

Nishiboy said...

madami kasi sa atin ang nagsawa nang maniwala sa pag-ibig. madami din sa atin ang basta basta na lang kung gamitin ang salitang love.

and i dont say "atin" to mean "gay guys", kundi lahat ng mga single ngayon.

wala nang gustong mag-effort para mapagana ang relationship. wala nang handang magtiwala nang buo.

hay. nakakalungkot.

buti na lang naimbento ang tanduay ice.

Mac Callister said...

@soltero--may nagpaparamdam na naman kaso nasa pinas ulittttttttttttt!LOL

@nishiboy--nakakadala na din kasi minsan, pero ako ata never magsasawa magmahal! hahaha teka,di ko type si tanduay ice!!!!

Mike said...

This post is love love love. Tamang-tama for valentines. Maadami kasing choosy, andyan na nga eh tinatangguhan pa and they end hp with the wrong guys.

Mac Callister said...

@mike--tutulugan ko lang yang feb14 malamang!hahaha