October 8, 2012

The Plan


I've talked to some gay guys before and most of them have this plan of getting married soon!

To a woman!

Wow.

Some part of me is telling. Why not?  Than being alone in the end right?

But I don't know if I could. Maybe they could. That's their choice.

Like the "plan" is. Be jolly. Be gay all you want. fuck all you want. and at a certain age, like 35 or more. You will stop. Will find a good loving wife. have kids and be happy. and grow old together.

Kaya kaya talaga?

Maybe, just make sure you wont stray and fuck guys on the side when wifey is not around. LOL


When I came out of the closet to some, I already made up my mind. I'll be happy with what I am. Or at least I'll try to be.

Of course there's this fear of being old alone. No one to take care of you blah-blah-blah. But I don't wanna fool myself just for the heck of it.

My sister even joked about having his eldest son to be my adopted son soon. Since I'm the Godfather. That her children would take care of me and I shouldn't be worried. Which what I love about my sister. She gets me. As if she knew what I've been thinking. hahaha

I don't know. For now its not sinking in yet.

And how about you? are you planning to get married too and do the "Plan"?



17 comments:

khantotantra said...

may instant anak ka pala kung tutuparin ng sis mo yung sinabi nia.

may mga nababasa ako ang iba naman,ang plan, artificial insemenation something. Yung parang sa teleserye lang... hahanap ka ng suroget(anhirap iispel) mader

ZaiZai said...

pag pwede na akong ikasal kay Paulo Avelino, ayun go ako haha :)

Bino said...


i know some na may asawa at anak and yes they're gay. pero yung mga un, napikot lang lol

Mark Joe said...

naiisip ko din yan minsan, pero mangyayari lang yan kapag mahal ko talaga yung bilat

Jenny said...

this story reminds me of someone. i read a blog before of someone who is gay tapos he decided to go straight and settle down with a woman. siguro kaya kung kakayanin at choice nila yun para maging happy. siguro just do whatever makes you happy :)


P.S.
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MEcoy said...

haha kung nabubuntis lng tlga nu? well aun basta nmn mahal mo ung tao ee wang masama sana lng din sila ngpapakasal para lng sa baby kasi kawawa ung baby nun beside parenthood is moretahn flesh and blood ee adaption ee di masama choice

rudeboy said...

It's always good to keep one's options open, Mac - just like our minds.

Will said...

I know three guys who have wives but they still sleep with women. Yung dalawa, hindi alam ng asawa nila, pero yung isa, alam.

Naaawa ako sa dalawang babae. :(

Tapos may alam pa akong isang nasa Twitter na magpapakasal in the next two years pero pumapatol siya sa kapwa lalaki. Sana naman alam ng babae.

Cute Desert Boy said...

kahit Bi ako I still plan get marry with woman, but the problem is PANO? lol.....kasi mahirap, pano mo ba maipapaliwanag sa magiging asawa mo na gay/bi ka, kasi di mo naman pede itago for ong time na magkasama kayo kasi malalaman at malalaman din nya dba? Bakit kasi di p ako girl, di tuloy ako makapagpropose si Paulo sakin...lol

Mr. Tripster said...

I think it is indecent that gay people should opt to marry women because that's the only way for them to secure their future and have children.

Love becomes unreal, and the sanctity of marriage becomes a joke, because it is made cheap by making it a marriage for convenience.

It is indecent, not because of the gay people, but because the institutions who are supposed to protect marriage and safeguard the rights, freedom and happiness of the people are doing the opposite. If the establishment will provide legal and social opportunities for gay people to be in union with one another, then there won't be any "fake marriages" or "marriage for convenience". No woman will be fooled, and no gay guy will be unfaithful and liar.

And no, I'm not running for Congress or Senate, but if I were, lahat gagawin ko para sa inyo (at ang inyong boto!). Hehehehe!

KULAPITOT said...

pumasok din yan sa isip ko ... kasi paano na din maging future ko .. pero ryt now ... ew ew! hahaha

nyabach0i said...

meron akong bekbek na super friend na nakakontrata na sa akin (merlat ako). usapan namin, pag dating ng 45 years old tapos pareho pa rin kaming walang jusawa or magaalaga, magpapakasal kami automatic. pero wala namang usapang magsesex kami or whatever. hahahaha.

Daniel said...

me naalala ako :

"Someone who knows who you really are but accepted you as a whole."

Ung alam na mas malandi ka pa kesa sa kanya

Alam nya rin na hindi ka papayag na mas maganda sya sayo.

tapos sabay pa kaung titingin sa mga oms, at sabay kikiligin pag may gwapo.

At alam nyang sasabunutan mo sya after sa sobrang kilig.

ung Alam nya kung gaano kataas ung standards mo pagdating sa pagkilatis ng lalaki, pero kampante sya na di ka aalis sa tabi nya kasi tanging si Ashton Kutcher lang ang pumasa sayo at impossibleng makuha mo un.

tapos, natatakot pag kasama mo ang isang lalaking di nya kilala.

She's paranoid...minsan...

Alam mo ung feeling na sawa ka na magmahal ng lalaki kasi niloloko ka lang.

Tapos bigla syang dumating sa buhay mo kung kelan naman erbog na erbog ka...


hahahaha...

Ako nagplano na...

mahirap na masarap...

at magulo...

Anonymous said...

I'm not gay. But alam ko ngayon to some part of the world gay marriages are legal. So ayun make sure lng na mahal nyo yung pakakasalan nyo because at the end kawawa nmn yung woman na pakakasalan nyo. Kung gusto lng magkaanak donate a sperm na lng instead of getting married not because of love. Make sure na 100%sure kayo na kaya nyo to be married to a WOMAN and kaya nyo Ang responsibilities and consequence ng pagiging husband. Yun lng

Anonymous said...

Guys/gays Punta na kayo dito sa Canada. Its legal to marry another guy pero ang mahirap is to find a guy u want to spend your lifetime with... Difficult ata yon... d:)

mr.nightcrawler said...

I see nothing wrong with that as long as may consent ng both parties, then I guess it's okay.

Meowfie said...

I agree with tripster guy

i think the reason gay people are still living in the shadows its because they still cant accept the fact of who they really are ...

and the future of the world is seriously at it's lowest because of this family pretending they're this perfect normal club when they really had there own share of skeletons in there closets.


Disgusting....